In order to help another using ‘Energy Clearing’ one must first become clear themselves. For that which we have not, for whatever reason, been able to personally embrace then we obviously cannot do it for another.
This ability increases with practice, as we cannot measure the degree that we can clear (be compassionate) all the time we are subject to the hidden influences of the ‘shadow’ we simply ‘be’ the best we can. A little compassion makes a big difference to you and those in your world.
To the degree we can be compassion, sometimes called ‘holding the space’ we can allow the build up of stress in another to gradually collapse — into ‘our’ heart! We do not take that which we, the clearer, experiences personally. We know that this is simply how our body is reacting to the energy of another and thus recognise that the feelings are not ‘ours.’
Energy Clearing is not about ‘fixing’ controlling or manipulating in any way. Clearing does not get in the way of the ‘story’ associated with the others symptoms. Clearing does not diagnose.
The Clearer simply shows up and notices the energetics of the other and through the process of acknowledgement, acceptance and non-identification with the feelings allows those energies to collapse by no longer feeding them energy (ie identifying, blaming or judging those feelings).